Wednesday, December 31, 2014

Self Year-end Review

Today is the last day of 2014 and lucky I am to have some time to open my blog again.  The holidays kept me busy catching up with my families and friends.  

This year I would like to do some Self Review.  A self-reflective recap that helps me see how much richer I am at the close of another year.

"Joyful is the person who finds wisdom, the one who gains understanding. For wisdom is more profitable than silver, and her wages are better than gold," Proverbs 3:13-14.

I ought to find myself grow each year as I learned the lessons in life.  Whether I view the experiences I've had this year as good or bad, each one offers an opportunity to become richer in wisdom and head into the New Year better prepared than ever to live wisely and be resilient. 

I found these riddles sensible that helped me make my self-review.  Find out and make some time to meditate and see the lessons in life.




Reblogged:

Answer These Riddles and You Will Find the Answers to Life

Looking for deeper meaning, trying to find patterns in everything, eager to answer life’s riddles—it is this curiosity and hunger for knowledge that has gotten us to where we are now as a species. We have built an advanced civilization by coming up with solutions to problems, and even though we may be somewhat complacent at this stage of our history, there are still a lot of little questions that every person needs to answer throughout his or her life in order to find that unique brand of happiness that will be slightly different for each of us.
As I am a big fan of the Socratic method, I will play a benevolent Riddler and give you a list of brain-teasers that, when answered and understood, will help you come closer to finding answers to much deeper issues. Oh, and trust me, learning how to apply any of this knowledge in real life, day to day, will be the true challenge you’ll have to face. There will be enough space between each riddle and its answer to allow you to think it over and do some guessing before you scroll down, so take your time.

Riddle 1

Journey without it and you will never prevail, but if you have too much of it you will surely fail.
Journey
Answer: Confidence
While there are plenty of those who lack the confidence to stand up for themselves and seize opportunities, there are also plenty of people out there who overestimate their abilities and bite off more than they can chew. To ensure a reasonable level of happiness in life and achieve as much as you can, you have to live between these extremes and learn to strike the right balance between the different values that you govern yourself by.

Riddle 2

Poor people have it. Rich people need it. It can make you or break you.
Rich vs poor
Answer: Adversity
Steel is hardened by being exposed to the roaring fires of a furnace and then cooled down, and so too is the human spirit hardened by adversity. The rich and privileged lack it and often become spoiled, with a warped view of reality and a childish ignorance of the ways of the world. However, if a person faces numerous hardships without the ability to cool down and recover, his or her spirit can be broken or they can become bitter and jaded. You need to live through some tough times to get a respect for life and hone those survival skills, but remember that there are also those whose hardships have taken them to a dangerous place—beware of such people.

Riddle 3

Everyone wants more of it to feel special, yet the more you have of it the less special you feel.
Feel Special
Answer: Knowledge
Ah, to be young and foolish is a wonderful thing. You think you know everything, that you are indestructible and have life all figured out, then as you get older and wiser, and delve much deeper into certain subjects, you suddenly realize just how much more there is to know. It can take people an entire lifetime to truly master a skill or acquire detailed knowledge on a topic, and there are just too many skills and topics for any one person to cover in several lifetimes. Understanding this makes you humble, and it also makes you question people who think they have all the answers.

Riddle 4

If you have me, you want to share me. If you share me, you haven’t got me. What am I?
Sharing
Answer: Secret
Some people fail to grasp the true importance of secrets. From a moral standpoint, they help you avoid lying, but at the same time allow you to protect your privacy and the privacy of those close to you. There is an urge to gossip and spread interesting information that we as humans are born with, but it has to be controlled. Little facts that only a few people know help strengthen the bonds of friendship and love between them—protecting someone’s secret in this day and age is nearly as brave and noble as protecting them from a wild animal.

Riddle 5

You can only have it once you have given it.
Giving
Answer: Respect
One of the most misunderstood concepts out there, respect is asked for yet seldom given. Some even try to take it by force or buy it, but if you are unable to show others respect and treat them as equals you will never be able to truly earn their respect. People respect bravery, intelligence, skill, talent, compassion and physical and mental strength, and these things cannot be faked.

Riddle 6

Imagine you are in a dark room. How do you get out?
Candlelight in darkness
Answer: Stop imagining it
There is something to be said about the destructiveness of self-fulfilling prophecies that people regularly impose upon themselves. When every hint of trouble is immediately viewed as a disaster and any attempt at remedying a situation is brushed aside with “What’s the point? It will never work,” then what chance do we stand when things really go bad? It is important not to give up before the battle has even begun, and to avoid taking yourself to that dark and lonely place all the time. A little positivity and determination will go a long way.

Riddle 7

What is always coming but never arrives?
Coming Soon
Answer: Tomorrow
Procrastination is born out of laziness and the fear of making changes, and it is the biggest dream killer out there. If you keep rescheduling important things for tomorrow, Monday or next month, you’ll stay in the same place as the world keeps moving on without you. Some 20-30 minutes here, an hour or two there, it’s not much time to invest in bettering yourself and if you keep doing it every day you will reap huge benefits. Don’t wait for tomorrow, do what needs to be done right now.

Riddle 8

 At night they come without being fetched. By day they are lost without being stolen.
Mostly at night
Answer: Doubts and fears
That old piece of advice given by our elders: “sleep on it”, is as simple as it is absolutely brilliant. At night before sleep we are at our most vulnerable, even if we have someone to hold tight. Those nagging doubts come creeping in, our insecurities and fears start eating away at our mind, and that self-critical voice gets a bit louder as the room goes quiet. However, after a good night’s sleep, as we wake up and let some sunshine into the room, get some fresh coffee and tasty food in our system, those troubled thoughts seem miles away. This is a much better time for talking things over, making big decisions and important phone calls.

Riddle 9

A prison you feel safe in, yet never quite happy. Whenever you try to leave, it only grows bigger.
Prison
Answer: Your comfort zone
The feeling of safety we get when we hide in our little comfort zone is a false one, and the lack of initiative will eventually lead to us feeling miserable. In order to improve we have to be willing to try new things, throw ourselves into uncomfortable situations and learn to cope with them over time. As we become comfortable with different situations and become proficient in a variety of additional skills, that comfort zone will keep expanding, and we will constantly need to keep running beyond its edges.

Riddle 10

If you break me I do not stop working; if you touch me I may be snared; if you lose me nothing will matter.
Clockwork mechanism
Answer: Your heart
Letting someone get close, reach in and touch our heart is an exhilarating and frightening experience at the same time. There are plenty of people out there, more than enough for everyone to find a great match. In fact, you may find a good match several times over, and just as your heart breaks it will also mend and be ready to be touched again. However, if you lose that empathy that makes you a decent human being, life will become bleak and meaningless, so keep your heart somewhere safe and nurture it.

Riddle 11

It starts off light and easy to bear, yet the more you carry it with you, the heavier a burden it becomes.
Heavy burden
Answer: A guilty conscience
We sometimes make rash decisions, especially when we are young and full of raging hormones, and even when we know we did wrong we manage to rationalize things and convince ourselves that we did nothing wrong or that we have no choice. The thing is, you can only keep justifying your actions for so long before your conscience starts eating away at you. This is why many people living a dangerous lifestyle, be they thugs or soldiers and cops, burn out and turn to alcohol or drugs. Abide by a code of ethics you have adopted at all times, and you will stay in good mental health.

Riddle 12

I do not listen to reason, but I hear every siren’s song and will try to steer us towards the rocks if you let me take the wheel. Who am I?
Siren
Answer: Ego
When you let your ego take over it’s very easy to take offense at the slightest insult, start shouting matches with people, try to show off and injure yourself at the gym, bite off more than you can chew and ruin relationships. It is only concerned with preserving your perceived social status and will quickly turn you into a drooling Neanderthal, and this goes for both men and women. When you walk out of the house it’s best to leave your ego at home – you don’t have to prove anything to anybody as long as you have a good sense of self-worth and are surrounded by people who understand and respect you.

Riddle 13

One by one we fall from heaven down into the depths of past, and our world is ever upturned so that yet some time we’ll last.
Fallen angel
Answer: Dreams and aspirations
The way we see ourselves will change over time, and some of the dreams we had and the goals we set will be left behind. However, as our worldview and personality changes, new dreams and aspirations emerge, which is a perfectly normal and healthy part of maturing. We are not giving up who we are, we are just evolving into an improved version of that same person, and knowing this allows us to let go of the past.

Riddle 14

A mile from end to end, yet as close to as a friend. A precious commodity, freely given. Found on the rich, poor, short and tall, but shared among children most of all. What is it?
PENTAX Image
Answer: A smile
This simple little thing really becomes a precious commodity once you get older. A lot of people suffer from anxiety and depression, and most of us spend a good part of the week under constant stress. We forget to smile sincerely, from the bottom of our heart like the carefree children we once were. This is why time spent with close family and friends becomes so precious. We need to remember how to open our eyes to the beauty and hilarity of the world around us, and smile more.

Riddle 15

We hurt without moving. We poison without touching. We bear the truth and the lies. We are not to be judged by our size. What are we?
Answer: Words
Our words can have an incredible effect on others. They can cause pain and sorrow, bring joy and laughter, make people uncomfortable, educate or offend. A lot of people don’t really think about the words they use, but we should all choose our words more carefully. Just a few inappropriate words uttered in the wrong moment can change our lives forever, and it is up to us to learn to communicate more tactfully so that we can dictate the outcome of such situations, rather than let our emotions get the better of us.


Spend a few minutes pondering these riddles and try to think about a moment in your life that could serve as an example for any of the points covered here. Feel free to dissect each of the riddles and come back to them again after you’ve had them running around in your head for a day or two.


Writer:
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Happy New Year Yamisweeters!  Cheers!


Be Positive Think Positive!
Friday, December 5, 2014

Is Your Love Tank Empty?: 10th of my Books to Read

Hi there Yamisweeters!  Cheers and let's enjoy the Christmas season.


While enjoying the season, I have to continue my reading goal which I neglected for quite sometime because of busy schedules.  My 10th book to read is by Bo Sanchez.  I think it is his newest book.  He launched it last Sunday at "The Feast" and I was able to buy it at P200.00 and luckily with his autograph. hihi!

Who is Bo Sanchez?  For those who don't know Bro. Bo.  He is a much sought-after Catholic lay preacher and best selling author of 40 books.  As a public speaker and servant of God,  he has received recognitions from prestigious award-giving bodies in the Philippines.  But over and above all these,  he considers his relationship with his wife, Marowe, and two sons, Benedict and Francis, as his greatest achievement in life.  They live in Manila, Philippines.



By mere looking/reading at its title,  what do you think it's all about?  Sabi ni Kuya Eugene(the building guard),  Mam, bakit ka nagbabasa nyan?  Ibig sabihin kulang pa yung pagmamahal mo sa asawa mo?  I told him that it's not ONLY all about loving your spouse.  It's about loving GOD and loving like GOD.  If we can imitate how GOD loves us haaaay naku, hayahay ang buhay!   

This book makes me realized my shortcomings as wife, mother, daughter, sister, friend, co-worker and citizen of my country. This book is really nakakabait.  Ang dami kong na-discover about myself.  We need deep spirituality to find the real happiness.  And the best thing is I have all the chances to make my love tank full and live the life I really want. 

And here is what you can expect from this book.  It's a good read and very nice gift idea for this season. 





"God created a love tank inside you.

Yes, you have a love tank in your heart and it longs to be filled up.  Do you know of adults who still act like their children?  They throw tantrums, become needy or angry.  Maybe you feel this way, too.  At the root of your problems is an empty love tank.
     It makes you susceptible to addictions and idolatrous relationships where you make another person your source of love.
    Relationships get cursed when you seek from another person something that only God can give---your fulfillment, satisfaction, happiness,  inner peace and completeness.
    Here's the truth: Only God's love can fulfill your deepest needs!  Seek your self-worth, deepest fulfillment, real happiness, satisfaction, and strength from Him.
   The moment God's love becomes the only foundation of your life,  you can love others from a position of peace, not anguish.  From a position of completeness, not lack.  From a position of trust, not control.  You start loving others genuinely because your heart is filled with God's love.
   Life is all about relationships--your relationship with God and others.  This book will teach you how to have loving relationships:

  • Have a Marriage That is Full of Grace
  • Parent from a Strong Foundation of God's Love
  • Effectively Handle a child's Tantrums
  • Honor your parents Even When It's Difficult
  • Control Yourself and Submit to Others
  • Love Those Who Hurt You
  • Show Unconditional Love

Let God fill your empty love tank so that you can love others from a heart that is filled with real love."

Now, do you want to know if your love tank is full or empty?  Grab a copy now!



 
Think Positive Be Positive!


Friday, November 28, 2014

Inspirational Quotes by Joel Osteen

Thank you Yamisweeters for dropping by!

It's such a nice day that we always keep ourselves being motivated and inspired by the things around us.  But not every day is as sunny as summer.  Cloudy and even storms came to our life that can put us down and feel blue.  There are times when we want changes but we can't decide how to do it.  Moving on is a big horror.  Decision is a thunderstorm that you don't want encounter because it is fearful.  Clouds cover  the sunshine as SHAME controls our emotions.  Hard times came when we loose our FAITH and TRUST on ourselves.

On these gloomy days,  inspirational quotes of Joel Osteen are perfect to meditate.  And these are my few favorites.


1. “Nothing in life has happened to you. It’s happened for you. Every disappointment. Every wrong. Even every closed door has helped make you into who you are.” – Joel Osteen

2.“If you want success, if you want wisdom, if you want to be prosperous and healthy, you’re going to have to do more than meditate and believe; you must boldly declare words of faith and victory over yourself and your family.” – Joel Osteen

3.“Stones of judgment, discouragement or doubt may be thrown at you. You can’t stop them, but you can make the choice to keep your walls up and not let them affect you.” – Joel Osteen

4.“No matter what’s happening, choose to be happy. Don’t focus on what’s wrong. Find something positive in your life. Thank God for the small things.” – Joel Osteen

5. “Don’t live worried, frustrated or upset because of what somebody did or what didn’t work out. Come back to a place of peace. It’s not going to work against you; it’s going to work for you.” – Joel Osteen



6. “There is a winner in you. You were created to be successful, to accomplish your goals, to leave your mark on this generation. You have greatness in you. The key is to get it out.” – Joel Osteen

7.  “No matter how dark and gloomy it looks in your life right now, if you’ll release the weight of those burdens, you will see the sun break forth.” – Joel Osteen

8.  “Friend, there’s no greater investment in life than in being a people builder. Relationships are more important than our accomplishments.” Joel Osteen


9.  In difficult times,  we're not supposed to quit believing; we're not supposed to quit growing."--Joel Osteen.

10.“I believe if you keep your faith, you keep your trust, you keep the right attitude, if you’re grateful, you’ll see God open up new doors.” – Joel Osteen


Be Positive Think Positive 
Tuesday, November 25, 2014

Suntok sa Buwan by Kito Romualdez

Hey Yamisweeters!

I just wanna share my "kilig" moment this morning.  Woohhhoooo! Kahapon ko pa hinahanap ito sa You tube because I missed it on TV.  An MTV Video of Kito Romualdez's version of Suntok sa Buwan featuring my favorite teenager Aryanna Epperson.  Yohoooo! I love it!



Have a kilig moment ahead!

Think Positive Be Positive!
Tuesday, November 18, 2014

Petite France: Travel Diary in Seoul, Korea

Bonjour Yamisweeters!!! This post is about the second part of our Day 2-Travel Diary.

Petite France is a small French culture village in Korea.  It's a place where children start to dream as they grow.  In short, ito ay pambata.  Kaya ang WU ay nagbata-bataan muna. LOL!  This place is more of galleries and French culture experience.  We roamed around the village, took a lot of photos and watched one puppet show in Korean Language.  We all caught LSS with O-ma-ma.....O-pa-pa.....!!!   We found a resting place after our so tiring walk at Nami Island.  I don't have much experience to share about this place except for the photos I got.

Enjoy browsing!     



Antiques


House of European Dolls

It looks like I belong to them!

We all recharged after the Jack and the Beanstalk Puppet Show(Lol!)

The Village is located overlooking mountains and seas




Petite France Promenade








Fountain Plaza







Oh! I love our group photos. We can't deny our child-like innocence.    Lol!!  To infinity and beyond(as per WishingBelle) friendship,  these are the memories we are creating. More travels and experiences together. Next time..... with TheLondoners and Steve!

Cheers!


Friday, November 14, 2014

Nami Island: A Travel Diary

Annyeong Yamisweeters!  I still sound Korean because of my travel hangover.  This is my Day 2 Travel Diary.

I'd like to share to all of you my photos at Nami Island.  But let me first introduce to you the island is all about.

  
"Nami Island is situated 63km from Seoul in the middle of the Han River.  It looks like a leaf floating gracefully on top of Cheongpyeong Lake.  The island has an area of 460,000sqm and a circumference of 5km.  Formed with pebbles and sand, there are no mountains in the island, but there are trees tall enough to touch the sky.  Wide grassy gardens where deer, ostriches, rabbits, squirrels, ducks and countless types of birds flourish.  Nami Island is a place where not only nature but also human beings can coexist.

Nami Island was named after General Nami, a notable figure in Korean history who courageously fought in battles but died at the age of 26.

Seasonal rain used to transform this land in an island, and with construction of Cheongpyeong dam, it is now and island all year long.  In 1965,  thousands of trees were planted by Mr. Byeong-Do Minn.
Today Nami Island is a place for rest and relaxation.  Human beings, animals and trees share peace, love and harmony far away from crowds and civilization." Source: Leaflets from the ticket Booth

What really thrilled me most at Nami Island was the autumn foliage.  I'd like to photograph the unique colors of leaves as well as the tall trees that you can see when you googled the Nami Island images during autumn.  It was an awesome experience for me.  The only thing that bothered me was the volume of people who wants to enjoy the beauty of the Island.  Sabi nga sa Batangas ay, "Anong dami ng tawo doown(in BataƱgueno accent)!!!"  It was Saturday then and I noticed that Korean loves to do outdoor activities.  Most of the visitors of Nami Island are locals.  And mostly are families.  They do picnic, biking and nature tripping.

They have Shuttle Buses going to the Island.  Please see the following details:
Insa-dong/Jamsil-Nami Island(Mon-Sun)Adult Fee:KRW15,000(round trip)Child Fee: KRW13,000(round trip)(aged between 24 mos-12 years old)Bus StopSeoul Insa-dong-9:30(Nearby the West Gate of Tapgol Park)Seoul Jam-sil-9:30(At the front of Lotte Mart nearby exit4, Jamsil Station subway line2)Nami-Island-16:00(Parking lot in front of the ticket office)
Entrance Fees:Regular: KRW10,000Foreigner: KRW8,000Special:KRW 4,000(children aged 3-13 and visitor after 6:10pm(Dec-Mar) and after 7:10(Apr-Nov) Free Entrance:Child aged 36 months underRound Trip Ferry fare and tax included
We hired a Midi Bus from Funko.  They offer several travel service. 

 We just walked around the Island and took a lot of photos.  Please allow me to share some of my photos.  Enjoy browsing!








































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